One of the worst moments of a married life is facing the reality of the situation that your husband hates you. It doesn’t get more hurting and painful to your emotions and feelings than this. Knowing that our husband doesn’t care for us can affect not only our marriage but also our general life as a whole and the outlook we have to life.
All the hopes and dreams about the future of your family and your home may be at risk because of the things going on between you and your husband. What is more painful is the feeling that our husband hates and dislikes us and we still love him a lot. So you might be wondering
What is that, that made my husband hate me so much?
And how do I make him to love me again?
Also you might be seeing that your husband is no longer interested in your marriage and this fact that you need to do something to save your marriage becomes a big stressor. You are now left all alone to take all the efforts to save your marriage and your family. To start working on changing your husband’s hate and saving »»» CONTINUE READING »»»
Posted by admin | Posted in Why he hates me | Posted on 05-01-2012
One of the worst moments of your married life is facing the reality of “my husband is hating me and dislikes me”. What is really painful here is to know that the person who you love and married to, now dislikes and does not care and is not affectionate to you in the same way anymore.
You need to ask yourself some questions and get answers to them. That will help you a lot in knowing how and from where the hate and the dislike comes from.
Loosing the love of your husband is really a tough thing. And at this stage of your marriage, you really need to get back and analyze deeply your relationship with your husband.
Is your husband treating you poorly?
Is your husband constantly arguing and fighting with you for no good reason?
What is it that happened that the love once my husband had for me changed into hate. Try to understand if his sudden change because of something that happened to him or is happening to him. It could be stress at work, some physical setbacks, or some conflicts with someome.
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There are lot of signs that comes from our husband that he dislikes and hates us. We either overlook them or misunderstand them for anger and mood offs. The aversion cannot be kept within himself and will reveal itself in some shape or form.
The disinterest, lack of love and even hate cannot be kept under wraps for a long time in a marriage by your husband. These are these actions, deeds and words that could easily giveaway the feelings he has for you in his heart.
Sign# 1: He is disinterested and does not care for me
When you feel that your husband does not care about your feelings, it a clear indicator of his disinterest in you, which could turn into hate. Disinterestedness towards you is one of the first warning signs of hate.
Sign# 2:Is it Loss of love or hate?
Also you need to know the fine line between your husband no longer loving you and your husband hating you. Losing the love your husband had for you overtime is different from him hating you.
Also the display of hate could be a sign that he is falling out of love with you. Or it »»» CONTINUE READING »»»
Posted by admin | Posted in Hating your family | Posted on 26-10-2011
Lot of wives are faced with issues where their husbands hate their family. This is really a delicate and awkward situation to be in, because we need both of them. And want our husband to like our parents and be in good terms with them. So coming to the question, What to do when my husband hates my family?, it is really possible to change him doing a couple of things over a period of time.
# Does your parents like your husband?
Most of the times the reason why you husband hates your family because he might have a feeling that they do not like him and not respecting him enough. If that is the case, first deal with your parents. Know what is that, that they don’t like about your husband.
# Have frequent but short visits.
Make sure that you and your husband meet your parents on a regular interval for just a brief period of time. At times the reasons for dislike might be because they really don’t know who and how they are. These short visits would let them know each other better. But be very careful not to expose each other too much. »»» CONTINUE READING »»»
Many wives these days are facing resentment and aversion from their husbands and are left with this difficult question in their marriage, Why my husband hates me?. If is quite difficult to know and understand the hate of our husbands. At times we may assume that it is the anger at something that is being shown as hate and aversion.
One other question regarding hate that comes to our mind is, Is my husband hating just some aspect of me or is he hating me completely!
It is really painful and sad when we hear and are living through the “hate” from our husband in our married lives.
Does your husband behave in such as way that he shows aversion and resentment towards you?
“Did your husband say that he hates you right on your face?”
The first step to know the reasons and fix this issue is to understand and analyze the things that are happening in our married life that is forcing our husband to say such hurtful things to us.
Try to find out the exacts reasons for the question, “Why my husband hates me?” lies a lot within ourselves simply by questioning and analyzing »»» CONTINUE READING »»»
Are you in a situation where your husband dislikes and hates you and are you wondering, What is it that I am doing wrong? And Why my husband hates me? Being in a situation where our husband does not like us is really painful and depressing to an extent.
You can surely turn things around with your husband. Below are some the things we need to understand and realize and live by them to change their resentment towards us.
Hate is something that builds up over a period of time. We might not have noticed the signs that led to them hating us. Only when lot of small dislikes add up over a period of time, they reveal themselves to us in the form of hate.
First and foremost,
What we need to do is to understand and analyze the issues, arguments and the painful emotions that are happening currently in our married life that is literally “forcing” our husband to say such hurtful things to us their wife.
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# Are you feeding your husband’s hate with something you do?
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Posted by admin | Posted in Is it Hating or Not? | Posted on 17-10-2011
There are different ways for you to tell if your husband is hating you or not. Before going on to that, first we need to know the fact that love can be shown by a husband to his wife in different ways. It may not be the in the same ways in all the marriages.
Do you not really able to understand and figure out if your husband is hating you or not?
Do you see dislike and hate in your husband’s actions, words and behaviors?
# How is your husband’s behavior to you?
When we see and hear certain things from our husbands’, it may look like he is intentionally trying to hurt us. And that can serve us a clear indication of your husband’s dislike and resentment towards us.
As a wife you should be able to figure this out quite easily as you have seen your husband from the days when he loved and cherished you. The way he cared for you and the way he spoke to you.
# Don’t compare your husband with initial days of marriage
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Posted by admin | Posted in Is it Hating or Not? | Posted on 16-10-2011
Its really painful and hurting when we hear from our husbands that they hate and dislike us. Whenever we hear something like this, we need to get answers by getting to the bottom of the issue in question, why my husband says he hates me?
Do you feel that when he is angry he says hateful things on you and he literally does not mean this?
He wants to hurt you saying he hates you?
We immediately need to analyze the things happening in your marriage, and give a deep look and see what is it that makes them so frustrated that they are forced to say such hurtful “hate” things to us.[ How to bring back lost love ]
I am sure that he behaves in way that look to you that he is totally disinterested in you and the marriage. He seems to have lost interest in you. And are you thinking that separation or divorce could be inevitable to your marriage.
NO not really; lots of husbands and wives have saved their marriages from the brink of a break up by doing couple of small things, like changing some behavior or manners.
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